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Stolen from everyone!

the Asserter
Test finished!
you chose AY - your Enneagram type is EIGHT.


"I must be strong"



Asserters are direct, self-reliant, self-confident, and protective.


How to Get Along with Me



  • Stand up for yourself... and me.
  • Be confident, strong, and direct.
  • Don't gossip about me or betray my trust.
  • Be vulnerable and share your feelings. See and acknowledge my tender, vulnerable side.
  • Give me space to be alone.
  • Acknowledge the contributions I make, but don't flatter me.
  • I often speak in an assertive way. Don't automatically assume it's a personal attack.
  • When I scream, curse, and stomp around, try to remember that's just the way I am.

What I Like About Being a Eight



  • being independent and self-reliant
  • being able to take charge and meet challenges head on
  • being courageous, straightforward, and honest
  • getting all the enjoyment I can out of life
  • supporting, empowering, and protecting those close to me
  • upholding just causes

What's Hard About Being a Eight



  • overwhelming people with my bluntness; scaring them away when I don't intend to
  • being restless and impatient with others' incompetence
  • sticking my neck out for people and receiving no appreciation for it
  • never forgetting injuries or injustices
  • putting too much pressure on myself
  • getting high blood pressure when people don't obey the rules or when things don't go right

Eights as Children Often



  • are independent; have an inner strength and a fighting spirit
  • are sometimes loners
  • seize control so they won't be controlled
  • fugure out others' weaknesses
  • attack verbally or physically when provoked
  • take charge in the family because they perceive themselves as the strongest, or grow up in difficult or abusive surroundings

Eights as Parents



  • are often loyal, caring, involved, and devoted
  • are sometimes overprotective
  • can be demanding, controlling, and rigid

Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

The Enneagram Made Easy
Discover the 9 Types of People
HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages



You are not completely happy with the result?!
You chose AY

Would you rather have chosen:

  • BY (FOUR)
  • CY (SIX)
  • AX (SEVEN)
  • AZ (THREE)




  • My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:


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    You scored higher than 52% on XYZ
    Link: The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test


    This does sound a lot like me!

    Date: 2006-02-22 02:39 am (UTC)
    From: [identity profile] tx-cronopio.livejournal.com
    Creepy, no? Everyone I know has said the same, and my experience was eerily revealing. I think it must be written by the same guys who write some of the good horoscopes, they have the gift of saying what everyone wants to hear. Because no way do I believe two questions can nail someone! Although yes, they did nail me. Um. Ok, so that is all... :)

    Date: 2006-02-22 03:03 am (UTC)
    From: [identity profile] margarita-queen.livejournal.com
    Isn't it creepy how some of these sound a lot like you? I just took this [and got the same result as you] and I was amazed how accurate it was! Only one thing was off... getting high blood pressure when people don't obey the rules or when things don't go right I'm like the exact opposite! *Laughs* I'm usually the one not obeying the rules.. *Grins wickedly* But other than that, it was dead on! It's kinda scary, to tell you the truth...
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    Date: 2006-02-22 03:37 am (UTC)
    From: [identity profile] sandy-s.livejournal.com
    Oooo...it sounds like you! :o) It is rather eerie, huh?

    *goes back into hiding so you can't poison me anymore* ;o)

    Date: 2006-02-22 06:33 pm (UTC)
    From: [identity profile] breenagentry.livejournal.com
    i see your moods and i love them. i was wondering how u create them or if u would not mind actually letting others have them. btw... ur bambi icons - the best. thumper kicks bootae. i love firefly and serenity and i love what u have done to create the icons. the ones with inara are beautiful

    Date: 2006-02-23 12:52 am (UTC)
    From: [identity profile] denimblues.livejournal.com
    I did it and posted it in my LJ.

    Mine sounded a lot like me, also.

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